ROLE MODELS....

I wanted to say a few things about the notion of Role Models....

I looked through a lot of rushes from the film lately and I noticed I've always stammered and struggled when interviewed about my "Role Models".
I've always been a little uncomfortable with the term because I've always felt it implies hero worship..I've always despised the term because its always made me envisage some sort of groupie, a fan boy...

However, there have been a lot of people who have inspired, influenced and motivated me during this challenge....
I want to make a point of mentioning them and letting people know the incredible impact they have had on my life.
I hate to use the phrase Role Model...but that's what they are....

People like my mate Phil Earley, a gifted Kettlebell practitioner with real generosity and a passion for sharing his knowledge. Kettlebells have become a big part of my training, they are my foundation and my safety net. Phil and his students have become dear friends.

People like Ben Creighton, a blindingly fast and dynamic bundle of energy that motivates and inspires everyone he trains with out of some sort of primal "Tigger-like" energy. Never without a smile, a kind word or a motivational speech..he is also one of the fastest stick fighters I've ever witnessed. A human tornado! Ben is an old friend and a true amigo who has turned into an awesome coach of "Mickey-esque" proportions (of Rocky fame).

People like Tony Blauer, who managed to turn my whole way of thinking on it's head after only knowing me a couple of hours. A true scientist with a unique vision. The people I met on his PDR course have all become long distance amigos in their own right, offering support and encouragement via facebook and emails.

People like Ron Balicki, a long time friend and mentor who really is in my opinion one of the finest fighters in the world. An incredibly talented and dedicated individual who approaches martial arts with the enthusiasm and curiosity of a novice even after a lifetime of learning, he is a perpetual student with an open mind, humble approach and endless optimism. He will quite simply just keep getting better forever as he never stops leaning, experimenting and growing as an individual. A true warrior and a living legend.

And then there is Lynn.
Whenever I've mentioned Lynn in particular I always seem to add "I don't always agree with Lynn but.." before every interview.
Looking back on it, I really regret that.

I think the reason for it is than Lynn really is in many respects a true role model.
I know Lynn is controversial, I know a lot of his aggressive marketing and outspoken opinions have offended people and I know in the UK in particular his love of hunting has upset folks.
I think it is this controversy that has always led me to try and slightly disassociate myself from him.
However, when it boils down to it I am just pandering to the majority crowd. When all is said and done, Lynn has been nothing but a positive influence on me and the way I live my life.
As well as being a truly phenomenal fighter, a lifelong martial artist, Lynn defies all expectations by being unbelievably strong and fast. He is, in his own words a "Fat Athlete". He has taken it upon himself to "prove to the world that fat kids can fight".
He forced me to stop living in the shadow of my own stereotype and to get training.

Lynn also lives by an admirable moral code that he calls a "Warrior Lifestyle". He is all about respect, politeness, generosity and manners...but he also refuses to ever be a victim.
I lived my life by most of that credo myself, except I've also lived as a doormat. I've told myself I'm just being a gentleman, or I'm just being polite, when a lot of the time I'm just being a mug.
Lynn has taught me self respect. It's something I'm still working on, after 32 years it's hard to turn yourself around, but I'm determined to no longer live like that.

Lynn issued this challenge. I wouldn't even be writing this if it weren't for him.

I think that was important to say...

Thanks

Andy